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Published Date: January 30, 2019

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What to Say When Someone Says Women Should Be Silent in Church

Editor’s Note: This article is one of a nine-part series on difficult Bible passages titled “What to Say…”

You’re at a holiday event and you mention that you’ve been asked to guest preach at your church. Your grandpa or your aunt or cousin brings up 1 Corinthians 14. In your college theology class, you mention that your pastor is a woman and a male student cites this troubling verse. You mentioned your egalitarian beliefs at Tuesday night Bible study and several of the members invite you to explain or defend your position. What do you say? How do you explain your egalitarian interpretation of this complex passage?

Here’s a few ideas:

The book of 1 Corinthians is all about how to be in a mature community of people who have the Spirit of God. Paul begins with a famous verse: “God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise” (1 Cor. 1:27). People do not have special standing in the church because of social hierarchy. We all have spiritual gifts and free consciences. But neither gifts nor freedom should be used for their own sake. The goal of mature freedom is to edify others. Knowledge puffs up, while love builds up (1 Cor. 8:1).

Silence Commands

In 1 Corinthians 14, Paul tells someone to be silent—sigato—three times:1

  1. Verse 28: a speaker in tongues should sigato if there is no interpreter.
  2. Verse 30: a prophet should sigato if someone else has a revelation.
  3. Verse 34: women should sigato; they are not permitted to speak.

The command to women is not an afterthought or a rabbit trail. It’s part of an argument that is summed up, “be eager to prophesy, and do not forbid speaking in tongues, but everything should be done decently and in order” (14:39). We should draw parallels between all three of these commands, expecting them to support the overarching message.

Interestingly—and unlike the first two commands—Paul doesn’t give a reason for women to be silent except that it is “not permitted.” This is odd. He’s defending order for mutual good. He wants people to take turns, interpret each other, and keep unedifying things to themselves.

Clearly, this is so that all gifts are used and nothing is wasted. Women were also praying and prophesying in chapter 11, so it would make no sense for this to be a universal command—especially since there is so much in this letter about using gifts in public worship. So what are we missing? One of three things must be true:

  1. Women have special foolishness and inferiority. Their gifts of prophecy and speaking should be wasted, and not used to build others up. Women’s speaking and teaching, described favorably in 1 Corinthians 11 and Titus 2, are problems that need to be explained.  
  2. Paul didn’t write this passage. Either he is quoting their letter to him,2 or a later scribe inserted it.3
  3. We are missing context. Paul gives a situation and a reason for each of the other silence commands, so there must be a situation and a reason for this one. Like the others, the situation should have something to do with disruption, or speaking out of turn. The reason, likewise, should be related to Paul’s big themes in this passage: edification and mutuality.

Bacchus Worship

Corinth was a center of worship for the god Bacchus.4 As part of worship, Corinthians would lose all self-control in ecstatic, drunken frenzies. They also spoke nonsense “tongues.” The church at Corinth was getting drunk at communion, and going a little wild with tongues and prophecies.

So, when Paul says, “the spirit is subject to the prophet,” he’s reminding the Corinthians that they can wait their turn to prophesy and speak. The Roman writer Livy claims that most of the Bacchus worshippers were women. In religious practice in that area of the world, then and now, women contribute “ululations”—ritualistic wailing—to certain rites. This happens at funerals in the Bible. It also happened in triumphant or ecstatic worship, and certainly in the Bacchus cult. Bacchus worship seems to have been influencing the Corinthian church. So it makes sense that women would bring these ululations in, which would certainly be disruptive and not edifying.


In verse 34, most translations say women ought to be “in submission,” “subject,” or “under obedience.” The same verb is also used in verse 32, where the spirits “are subject” to the prophets, so that everyone can take turns speaking.

Like English, Greek has active and passive voices. There is also a third voice, the “middle,” which looks like the passive. The middle usually means that the subject is acting on herself. In verse 32, it’s easy to see the passive voice, because there’s an indirect object (the prophets) to which to be subject. However, “the women” are “in submission” to nothing. There is no corresponding object anywhere in the text. So here the middle voice makes the most sense, which would mean that the women are to “submit to themselves,” or control themselves.The Old Testament contains no command for women to submit to their husbands (1 Cor. 14:34).

“If they desire to know something, they should ask their husbands”

Another reason scholars suggest that women were not allowed to speak is that they were uneducated. They wouldn’t have been able to edify the congregation. We know that women were prophesying, so they were obviously able to edify in some way.

However, there was no formal religious instruction for women among either Jews or Greeks. Since Paul wanted women to grow and eventually participate in teaching, he told them to learn from their husbands. This means he also told husbands to teach their wives what they knew.

This sounds very patronizing today, but it would have been liberating to the original hearers.6 It meant women could receive the education they’d been denied. But this directive for women to learn is about much more than a probing question over lunch about something that happened in worship. The verb in Greek has an intensifier. Lexicons suggest “question,” or “interrogate,” or even “accost with an inquiry!” So women are instructed—even empowered— to take the initiative for a full religious education.

“It is shameful for a woman to speak in the meeting”

Women, especially upper-class women, were stuck at home most of the time. They wouldn’t be used to sitting down and receiving instruction. They might even be eager to chat or gossip, particularly since the house would be a woman-dominated space where they felt “in charge.”7

Additionally, only a small group could fit in someone’s house for worship. It wasn’t a church service like we know today.8 Rather, it would have been a disordered mess where everyone was talking. If people were speaking in tongues without interpreters and prophesying over each other, it makes sense that women were chatting. This would be an unedifying interruption. And on the other hand, they might have been making pagan ululations, which would also be inappropriate.9

To sum up, what should you say? 

So if Aunt Cassie or Grandpa Jake asks you about this complicated verse at the next family gathering, you might highlight these four points in response:

  1. In a church service, spiritual gifts should always be used to build up and edify others.
  2. Bacchus worship seems to have influenced Corinthian Jesus worship, and women may have been the ringleaders.
  3. Like all Christians, women should control themselves and seek the education they need to edify others.
  4. No one should interrupt worship.

More from the “What to Say…” series:

What to Say When Someone Says that Patriarchy is God’s Plan
What to Say When Someone Dismisses Women’s Leadership in the Bible
What to Say When Someone Says Women Are Not Permitted to Teach


1. The substance of this section comes from David Joel Hamilton, “Learning How to Minister From 1 Corinthians 14:26-40,” Priscilla Papers 17, no. 4 (2003): 21-25, accessed July 31, 2018.
2. For a defense of this view, see Kirk MacGregor, “1 Corinthians 14:33b-38 as a Pauline Quotation-Refutation Device,” Priscilla Papers 32, no. 1 (2018): 23-28, accessed July 31, 2018.
3. For a defense of this view, see Philip B. Payne, “Vaticanus Distigme-Obelos Symbols Marking Added Text, Including 1 Corinthians 14:34-5,” New Testament Studies 63, no. 4 (2017): 604-25, accessed July 31, 2018.
4. The substance of this section comes from Richard Kroeger and Catherine Clark Kroeger, “Pandemonium and Silence at Corinth,” The Reformed Journal: A Journal Special: Christian Men and Women, then and now (1978), reprinted by CBE International, accessed July 31, 2018.
5. Kroeger and Kroeger, “Pandemonium,” 3.
6. Hamilton, “Learning How to Minister,” 23-24.
7. Kroeger and Kroeger, “Pandemonium,” 1.
8. Kroeger and Kroeger, “Pandemonium,” 4-6.