We all have a “thing”—a certain issue, cause, or topic that taps into our passion and causes us to climb up on our soapboxes.
One of my “things” is building supportive communities for women in the church. So much so that, when my husband and I were at brunch with a group of friends recently and the conversation at my end of the table turned to women in leadership and ministry, it was only a matter of seconds before I was on my soapbox.
I argued that if a male leader in the church believes that women should be in positions of leadership, but doesn’t use his power to actively work toward that goal, he is sinning.
These words were born out of frustration with a system of complacent privilege in our churches.
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“Sure, men and women are equal, but men are supposed to lead.”
“Of course, men and women are equal, but women are supposed to be submissive.”
“All people are equal, but when couples reach an impasse, husbands should make the final decision.”
I have heard these “equal, but” statements for years. I’ve heard them in the church. I have heard them among friends, and I have heard them from my students. And, yes, I will admit it. In years past, I have even uttered these “equal, but” phrases myself. Yet, if used to explain differences and roles among other demographic groups, they would almost immediately identified as the contradictory statements that they truly are.
Here are a few examples,
“Sure, all people a...Read more
Special thanks to Autumn Whitefield-Madrano of Huff Post, whose article inspired this post.
Author’s Note: Women (and men) demonstrate their God-given abilities and desires in many different ways. The ways in which women express their want is dependent on ability, giftedness, and context. Though this article focuses on athletics as one way in which women express their inner-strength and physical ability, it in no way seeks to suggest that this is the best or only avenue for expressing female worth or capability. I celebrate the unique contributions of women of all abilities in all seasons of life.
On July 5, the world celebrated an amazing feat of strength, strategy, and athleticism. Some of the greatest athletes in the world faced down across a football (soccer) field. And t...Read more
This article is a part of the July blog series “Becoming New,” in light of CBE’s 2015 LA Conference, “Becoming New: Man and Woman Together In Christ.” Articles for this month will either introduce conference topics or feature stories of hope, faith, and personal transformation. We invite you to join us this month as we seek to become new together as a community.
The first time I realized that I was an egalitarian was before I even knew what the actual word meant. It was my sophomore year of college and I was suddenly starting to feel the pressure from my conservative church. All of my mentors thought it was thrilling to have a student who knew she wanted to pursue ministry as a theology major. However, they were clearly put off at the suggestion o...Read more
As I noted in my previous post, the resurrection of Jesus Christ marked the inauguration of the New Covenant. Depending on which theologian you read, one might say this “inauguration” period reached its peak with Pentecost, the day when the promised Spirit was poured out on the church (Acts 2). Whatever the case, Christians today—generally since the time of Christ—are living in the age of the “New Covenant.”
Being “new,” the New Covenant is different from the “Old Covenant,” which (again, depending on theology or context) may refer to the Mosaic covenant, or all of the covenantal administrations prior to Christ (e.g., Abrahamic, Davidic, etc.). For simplicity and convenience, most Christians typically refer to the “Old Co...Read more
As I sat down to write my first blog post for Women's History Month, I heard the devastating news that a wild, uncontainable fire was ripping through our beloved city of Cape Town. From the veranda of our house, we could see the flames burning like molten lava some seventy kilometers away. My heart just broke. For five consecutive days, evacuations took place, animals were hurt, and people lost their lives and homes. All the while, firefighters, men and women, never gave up. They worked shifts that stretched over thirty hours. They refused to go home; they refused to give up even while five thousand hectares (12,355 acres) of land lay burning. They saved lives and homes, rescued animals, and gave the people of Cape Town hope.
The outpouring of heroic love left tears in the eye...Read more
In commemorating International Women’s Day, we remain sober about the future safety of girls and women. According to the United Nations 35% of the world’s females, over 1/3 have encountered physical abuse in their life. What is more, in most of these communities women are rarely included in the strategies and implementations that address systems that perpetuate their own violence. Too often communities lack a “gender-lens” in dealing with power-imbalances that women and girls are best acquainted with and therefore are best able to address. When developing solutions to gender-based violence, their voice and experience is essential but frequently ignored. What is more, perpetrators depend on the silence of their prey, not only through systems that marginalize their ex...Read more
We recently saw the movie Selma. In the comfort of our theater seats we observed what we can only imagine African Americans endured—and in many ways continue to endure. As followers of Christ who believe in the egalitarian[i] principle of full functional equality for men and women, we watched Selma and noticed similarities between many churches view of functional equality for women, and the treatment of African Americans before they were considered equals.
Review history, for centuries church leaders interpreted literally and absolutized a handful of Bible passages they believed fully supported slavery. For example; “Slaves, obey your earthly masters in everything…”[ii] “Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear…just as you would obey...Read more
It's Hard Out There for a Woman of Color
I recently confronted a friend about the toys her daughter plays with. Her daughter, a beautiful 6-year-old girl, is obsessed with dolls. As my friend and I talked, her daughter laid out her dolls and played with them. I looked at the row of dolls and saw that not a single one had her beautiful brown skin, her playful curly hair, or her facial features. Instead, she spends her days playing with blond, blue-eyed, white dolls that look nothing like her.
I raised my concern with my friend. Her response was what I expected. "Where do you expect me to get a doll that looks like us? I go to the store and all I see is shelves and shelves of white dolls. The closest thing I can find is usually a brown or black Bratz doll, and they always look...Read more
“To sin by silence, when we should protest, makes cowards out of men.”
These words were written by a poet named Ella Wilcox around the Civil War. In America today we have this idea that the Civil War ended slavery. That, however, is not true. In fact, there has not been a single day in the history of The United States of America that slavery has not existed.
Human trafficking is the coercion or persuasion of women or men into modern day slavery (most often sex slavery), or more plainly, the sale of human beings. We hear about human trafficking in terms of, “this isn’t really here, it’s overseas,” but there is no better way to get away with a crime than when you think it doesn’t exist in your neighborhood. Many people know what human tra...Read more