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Believers Live in Close Community: Chicagoans
Experience Gender Equality in Communal Church Living
Jon and Carol Trott
share their car, shampoo and bread with about 500 other people in the
inner city of Chicago.
The Trotts live with the
Jesus People USA, a community of believers that tries to live out Luke’s
description of the early church’s devotion to God and each other
through communal living in Acts 2:44-47.
This experience of living in
close community with other believers has brought Jon and Carol to a
unique understanding of the process of discovering and implementing
unique abilities in marriage and ministry. As Jon explains, “Each
member of a marriage has gifts, just as each member of our community has
gifts.”
This recognition and
devotion to gifting enables JPUSA (jah-POO-zah) to reach people in a
wide variety of ways. Some people feed the needy, play with children or
help clothe homeless people, while others do carpentry, make music or
work for Cornerstone Press.
Local churches such as
Uptown Baptist Church and Emmaus House work with JPUSA to offer outdoor
concerts and other ministries to the surrounding community. Affiliation
with the Evangelical Covenant Church opens the door to other
opportunities as well.
Each member of the JPUSA
community spends a majority of their time working with the ministry that
they are most gifted in. In fact, the line between ministry and
community is so faint that Jon describes the ministries as “JPUSA
being expressed in one particular way.”
Daily Living in Community
Carol works as a case
manager at Leland House, a second-stage housing center for homeless
women with children. Her daily tasks involve helping other women move
forward in their lives as they make the move from various shelters into
apartments. Most importantly, she keeps the women accountable to their goals of finding
training or jobs, housing and getting back on their feet. Jon edits
Cornerstone Magazine and is in charge of its Web site (www.cornerstonemag.com).
They are both involved in the struggle for low-income housing in
Chicago.
In addition to these other
duties, the Trotts spend Wednesday nights in a homeless shelter, and
serve meals to senior citizens a few times a year. On the weekends Jon
helps with the dishes, Carol answers phones and they do their family’s
laundry together.
Jon and Carol are happy with
the life they have chosen in Chicago. They heard about the Jesus People
individually in the 1960s and 1970s and joined the community in the
late 1970s. In JPUSA, Jon found what he had looked for in college:
“a bunch of imperfect yet transparent people trying to obey Jesus in
their daily lives.” Carol discovered a ministry where she could fit
in, even as a recently divorced mother of two.
When people come to JPUSA
for help, they are not expected or required to repay it in any way.
Carol explains, “We don’t look for repayment because that would be
discouraging.” It is encouragement enough to see some people come to
know Jesus and change their lives for the better. Jon mentions that some
people have received help from JPUSA and “have gone full circle to
become fellow workers in Chicago.”
Close Living Requires Shared Responsibilities and Roles
In the course of daily life, and through the process of building relationships with those in need, the Trotts frequently come across people that hold passionately to a belief in male dominance. Practice has shown Jon and Carol that the best way to reach those people is to model a marriage based on equal partnership.
The absurdity of universal
female submission is apparent in everyday life at JPUSA. In the Trott’s
marriage, Carol has a better head for money matters, so she manages
their funds. According to Jon, the only benefit to his handling their
money would be “to show how macho I am.”
When asked about the roles
of men and women in the church, Jon tells the story of Dawn Herrin (now
Mortimer). He describes her in the early days of JPUSA as “by far the
oldest and most mature believer in the community.” Her “people
first, task second”
philosophy taught Jon the necessity of focusing on individuals and
relationships. “Her role in my life as a mentor and friend is a debt I
can never hope to repay,” he says. Dawn edited Cornerstone Magazine
until 2001.
It is with mixed emotions
that Jon reflects on Dawn’s impact on his life. He doesn’t know “whether
to laugh or cry” about people who still believe that women should
always submit to men. He believes that women can work in leadership
roles in the church and keeps Dawn’s example in mind when he is faced
with the contrary assumption.
In the JPUSA community and
church, women are respected as leaders, pastors and teachers. They are
also in charge of the JPUSA School and coordinate “the rather
unenviable fleet of automobiles we collectively share,” explains Jon.
Family, church and other duties are not evenly divided between men and
women, though, because it is important that people serve according to
their gifts.
Even though certain roles at
JPUSA fit into the traditional mindset, this does not mean that either
gender is prohibited from service in any area. Jon notes that, “even
in an ‘egalitarian community,’ male/female leadership is not a
fifty-fifty proposition.” The workforce at Lakefront Roofing Supply,
their main “tent-maker” ministry, is largely male, and childrearing
duties fall mostly to the women. Still, many of the men do laundry, wash
dishes and change diapers.
Since 1973, men and women
have shared leadership roles in JPUSA. These leaders are careful to give
due credit to Scripture, church fathers, current theologians, and
personal leadings from God, in declining order. They recognize that sin
caused a male-dominant hierarchy to form over the creation of men and
women as equal partners in a perfect world.
The ray of hope, Jon says,
is that “through Christ, the domination of sin has been monumentally
affected.” As believers we are no longer bound by sin and are free to
submit one to the other. Carol offers the reminder that “all people
are equal in the eyes of God.”
She didn’t always see a
problem with male dominance in marriage. She used to believe that it was the man’s job to make final decisions in a
relationship, as long as he wasn’t leading the woman into sin. She and Jon are learning to live
out their egalitarian views in the everyday decisions of their lives,
but they know that, as Carol confesses, “This will be a life-long
lesson.”
By Elsa Petersen
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