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AN AUTOMATIC RESPONSE

I find myself humming, sometimes even outright singing, whenever I see the words of Psalm 84.

How lovely is your dwelling place,
     Lord Almighty!
My soul yearns, even faints,
     for the courts of the Lord;
m
y heart and flesh cry out
     for the living God. (v. 1-2)

I cannot help but think of the passionate melody of a worship song I sang almost once a week during high school. Better is one day in your courts, than a thousand elsewhere, the chorus goes, quoting straight from Psalm 84:10. I sang those words at conferences and youth group, fast-paced and accompanied by pounding drums. I sang them in quiet reflection at Sunday school and at Easter morning youth sunrise services. As young Christians, my friends and I sang those verses and believed them with every drop of sincerity we had.

As Sara Wilhelm shares in this issue of E-Quality, the “youth group experience” for many young Christians is an experience that strengthens our commitment to and understanding of Christ. This was the case for me. I was mentored by adults whose hearts and flesh really did cry out for God. And I was encouraged by my peers to live in that way myself, fully and authentically. My church experience in high school built the foundations of my faith, for which I am extremely grateful.

So today, I read Psalm 84 and hum that familiar melody. It is…automatic.

As I went off to college, I discovered a few other faith matters that were automatic, for both myself and others around me. An obvious one turned out to be the immediate “no!” response to any question of a woman pastor. A less obvious (but just as significant) one was the feelings of insecurity and worthlessness that arose as many of us young women worried about finding our “future husbands.” Whether intentionally or unintentionally, youth group was a place where I missed the message that women are inherently and fully equal to men, and subtly but strongly, the message of inequality followed me. It became…automatic.

Just as I was taught in youth group over and over again about concepts of God’s love and greatness, I find myself hoping and praying that youth groups are also teaching and re-teaching God’s heart for reconciliation and freedom in Christ—that young people are learning the biblical concept of the full equality of women and men of all ethnicities, socio-economic classes, and ages.

So that one day, maybe young women will know the truth of God’s love and believe their inherent worth, that they will sing the words of Psalm 84 and believe that they can use their leadership gifts for God. May it be soon!

In this issue:

Pamela J. Erwin
shares her insights into empowering women from her years working with youth ministry majors.

Sara Lynn Wilhelm describes the importance of teaching and practicing gender equality and justice with youth.

Megan Greulich reviews the Christian dating book for teenage girls, For Young Women Only.

Heather Scheiwe presents ten ideas for practicing gender equality with your youth group.

Ashley Pikel reviews Teenage Girls, a practical approach to mentoring and understanding adolescent girls.
 

Blessings to you,

Megan Greulich
E-Quality editor

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Megan Greulich
is a 2006 graduate of Bethel University with a degree in psychology. Besides editing E-Quality, Megan also currently serves as Membership Coordinator at CBE. She may be reached at mgreulich at cbeinternational dot org.



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