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OVERCOMING BARRIERS
Jennifer Sudderth
“There is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free,
there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ
Jesus.” Galatians 3:28 NRSV
Jesus Christ wants his body to become one—every church, every
person. He wants his body to experience the unity with him and with
each other that he experiences with his Father. But this unity is
hindered by barriers of many kinds.
These barriers may take tangible and intangible forms. But whatever
their form, they are always accompanied by one thing—fear, fear of
our differences and the unfamiliarity which those differences bring.
In
order to become one, we first have to overcome our fear of
differences by facing them and by changing the way we perceive them.
“THERE IS NO LONGER JEW OR GREEK...”
As
an African-American, I have experienced, too often, the sting of
racial discrimination. I have seen in the eyes, heard in the words,
felt in the deeds of others their contempt, yes, even their hatred
of me. Yet, I know that it is not me that they are hating; for the
barriers they have erected between us have not allowed them to know
me, to find out who I really am.
No,
it is their lack of information about my heritage, their insecurity
about my freedom, their fear of everything my skin color represents
in their minds that keeps them from seeing and appreciating my
worth, and makes them respond differently toward me than they would
to their own kind.
The
beginning step in overcoming barriers is to recognize our
differences and see them as helps, not hindrances; channels, not
barriers. There is value in learning to love and appreciate the rich
heritage and unique experiences that come with different cultures,
different people. The Apostle Paul expressed it best when he said:
“To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the Jews...I have become
all things to all men so that by all possible means I might save
some.” As Christians representing Christ in the world, we should be
willing to accommodate ourselves to the culture of others in order
to save some.
My
own childhood was a living example of Paul’s ideas. I was raised in
the barrio of the city and attended a predominantly
Mexican-American elementary school. I spoke Spanish and attended
weddings, funerals, and birthday parties with my Mexican neighbors.
I cooked and ate Mexican food and sang, danced, played, and learned
among people whom I found to be more like me than unlike me.
Though our skin color was different, our racial barriers were down.
I knew these people, they knew me. We had no reason to fear each
other. To each other, we were no longer “those people,” but brothers
and sisters. Later I was able to share the gospel with people from
communities like these because I was able to become like them to win
them for Christ.
“...NO LONGER SLAVE OR FREE...”
The
factors which segregate our communities vary. Some are social
factors—people who share a history, an ethnicity, a heritage tend to
flock together. That’s why we have barrios and ghettos in
most major cities throughout the United States.
This
segregation is often the result of economic factors—people live
where they can afford to live. This usually means that poor people
live among poor people, middle-income people live among
middle-income people, and rich people live among rich people.
There in the midst of our independent, isolated, self-contained
communities, stand our Christian churches, independent, and
isolated, and self-contained.
As
followers of Jesus, this isolation should greatly concern us! The
goal of unity among Christians is to reflect Christ’s love for the
world through our love for each other. Trustful cooperation between
churches is a significant way to show our unity. And yet, too often,
we remain isolated and removed from each other. Why?
Why
can’t we come together for worship and fellowship? Think of the
potential for evangelistic outreach if we would only risk joining
those who we see as a little different from us. What a statement we
could make if we could work with those unlike us to build something
together like a home for the elderly, a drug rehabilitation center,
a hospital, or a school that would stand as a symbol of our unity
with Christ and with each other.
“...NO LONGER MALE AND FEMALE...”
One
of the harshest and most painful barriers which I have encountered
in ministry is the one between men and women. As a woman in
ministry, I have seen my sisters labeled feminists, accused of being
aggressive, said to be in competition with our brothers, and viewed
as oddities. Many times our ministry is not taken seriously but
written off as frivolousness by some, non-scriptural by others, and
even an assault on the divine will of God by a few.
Ministry is more difficult for a single woman. Often her motives for
ministry are in question. Is she in ministry to fill some deep, dark
void in her life? Is she just marking time, waiting for something or
someone special to come into her life so that she can become a
“regular” woman? Or, is she having a difficult time accepting or
coming to grips with her womanhood?
I
have felt the pain of discrimination more as a woman in ministry
these past 12 years than I ever have as an African-American over the
span of my entire life. I have suffered insult and injustice,
endured disregard and indignity, and experienced loneliness,
isolation, and sometimes even despair. I must admit that there have
been times that I have thought how much easier it might be for me if
I were just a “regular” woman, doing and being whatever it is that
“regular” women do and are.
But
women in ministry are not “regular.” No one in ministry is
“regular.” We have all been called by God to step out from where it
is comfortable, safe, and acceptable and to step into the risky,
uncomfortable, often unacceptable zone. For women, the barriers
encountered make this step an even larger step of faith.
It
has been a long process for me, but I have come to terms with my
ministry and my life. The process required me to let go of all the
things that I thought I wanted and needed. It required me to take
hold of those things the Lord desired for me. The process required
me to rebuke those things that are not of God: the fears, the bad
feelings, and the attacks waged by the Accuser that used to make me
doubt, dread, and fear the challenges that lie ahead.
God
has given me the assurance that I am within his will. He has given
me the assurance that he will be with me always—completing in me the
work that he has started. He has given me the assurance that I need
not fight for nor defend my ministry—that I need only to stand firm,
be still, and wait for the Lord to gain glory for himself through my
life.
This
action—to stand firm and be still in the confidence of the Lord—is
the beginning of overcoming barriers, barriers laden with fear and
anger, barriers that cripple and destroy. God will change attitudes
and hearts if we stand firm and are still. He will open doors to
ministry. He will gain the victory over our adversaries. He will
awaken and revive the Church in the 21st century...and he will use
both men and women to help do so...if we stand firm and are still!
“...FOR ALL OF YOU ARE ONE...”
Christ prayed for the unity and oneness of believers (see John 17).
His divine will and desire for believers is that we transcend the
economic, racial, and gender barriers that divide us and prevent us
from moving as a single unit. God’s desire is that we view ourselves
as one entity, composed of many distinct components with different
functions.
To
complete this task Jesus has set before us, we must work in harmony
with unity and consistency in purpose “so that the world may
believe... so the world may know” the love of Christ as reflected in
our unity and in our love. |